Please be patient with me!!!!

I've been playing around with my blog, and I fear I have done some real damage!  I've put a new template up and saved the wrong one, so, my old  blog is gone!  Or at least all of my widgets are missing [ I tell ya, if I ever thought I'd live to see the day when I was lamenting the loss of my "widgets" {rolls eyes, shakes head}...]  The saddest thing is, I've lost that lovely Paris page...

So, now it remains for me to spend tomorrow learning how to navigate this new template, which has no navigation bar on top!!!!  And no way to get to the dashboard from here that I can see.  I've been at this for 3 hours and I feel some garment rending coming on, so, since the garden is calling, I'm outa here.
Oh, and this is not Everafter Farm, but a sweet cottage nearby.
UPDATE!  I did it!!  I got Paris back!!  It's amazing what a measly 8 hours on the computer can accomplish.